Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Camino Day 9 July 31 Torres del Rio to Viana


Camino Day 9 July 31 Torres del Rio to Viana (Albergue Andrés Muñoz) 7.5 miles Total to date 107.5.


I slept in this morning and was the last to leave the albergue. My knee felt better than it had the day before. Shortly after I began walking I ran into Miquel. I had not seen him for a couple of days. He spent two days at the Casa Magica, something I should have done. Oh well. My knee held up pretty well today, but was hurting by the time I got to Viana. It is fine on the uphills, but kills on the downhills. 

When I got to Viana and took my shower, I realized I had a blood blister on the side of the left heel that was totally exposed because a flap of skin had pulled away. So I poured some betadine on it and went to the farmácia to get some gauze bandages. Apparently in England they are called compresses and in Spain they are called compresas. My attempt to communicate gauze was a total failure. Later one of my new British friends offered to give me some of hers. She is a retired nursing teacher and so very concerned about my physical problems  Rather than using them, I took one to the farmácia to show them what I wanted, and it worked! I also found a brace for my knee!  If my blood blister allows me to walk, we'll see how the brace works. So far just walking around the alberque it seems like  magic. So I'm a little hopeful tonight. I'm still going to have to rest for a day or two, either here or in Logroño. If I can't stay here I may have to take the bus six miles to Logroño, because I don't want to risk getting the blood blister infected. 
I had dinnerr tonight with Sara from London who just finished her first year teaching Spanish. She also speaks German, French and English, of course. She used to be a financial planner, but went back to school to getting her teaching qualification. With us at dinner was a French man, I'd say around fifty who was a pig farmer until, as he put it,  he got tired and retired. 

As I'm writing this I'm chatting with my new friend Jacob, a young man about twenty from Austria. He has just finished school and is trying to live in the moment and not think about what he'll do next. The Camino is a great place to practice.

I walked 7.5 miles. Total I have walked 107.5 miles. 


Well it's bed time. I look forward to reading your comments in the morning. Hoping my very special friend Kim is having a happy birthday. 




Monday, July 30, 2012

Camino Day 8 July 30 Los Arcos to Torres del Rio

Camino Day 8 July 30 Los Arcos to Torres del Rio (Albergue Casa Mari) 5 miles Total to date 100.


So I said good bye Los Arcos and hit the road. It was pretty mundane scenery compared to what I have seen. My knee was uncomfortable, but not screaming. I decided to take it easy and stop in Torres del Rio which was only a five mile walk. There is a young Italian gal traveling with three guys. They are all nice and she has been very solicitous about well being and my knee. She is really sweet. 

I got to Torres del Rio and ran into the Italian girl. I also met a British woman named Emma who is having blister and knee problems. She was planning to stay over also. On the way to the alberque we stopped at the church associated with the Knights Templar. Emma teaches math at what would junior high/high school level in the states. She got a degree in Spanish also and spent a year studying Spanish in Granada. 

I looked for a doctor, but the doctor only comes to town on Wednesday and there is no farmácia. There are two tiny little stores where I got some cheese, bread, olive oil chips and an orange for my snack. Hoping to have a proper dinner tonight. 


Emma and I went for a proper peregrino dinner. I had gazpacho, lamb, French fries, bread, water,and rice pudding for ten euro. After dinner we went back to the alberque and sat on the terrace reading before going to sleep. Since I was feeling a little out of sorts I started reading “To The Field of Stars” by Kevin Codd again to remember the physical trials and tribulations he had gone through on the Camino. It was somewhat comforting together with all the loving supportive comments from my friends. It's a solace to know that if I don't finish this you will not think I am a failure. lol







Camino Day 7 July 29 Villatuerta to Los Arcos


Camino Day 7 July 29 Villatuerta to Los Arcos (Albergue Casa de la Abuela) 16.8 miles Total to date 95 miles.

Yea! I have wifi. I'm at Casa de la Abuela in Los Arcos. I’m sitting in the kitchen/dining area near the entry door drinking diet coke and eating a homemade cookie.  I decided to stay in this alberque because I am an abuela (grandmother.) hehehe They do your laundry here. I guess there is no room for the traditional sinks and clothes lines, so you leave your laundry outside your room and they machine wash it and dry it, for free! The amazing little luxuries that you come across by chance on the Camino and appreciate way beyond the appreciation you would feel at home is astounding.

I ran into Clara again here at Casa Magica. We got up at 5 am and had a yummy Clara and I started walk about 6 am. We had decided to take the alternate route, the road less traveled. The Camino itself is off road, so the alternate route is off off road. This route went by the ruins of a fifteenth century hospital (what they used to call alberques) and up a mountain and around a ridge. At one point we were unclear about which way to go. My instincts told me to go straight. Clara being an English teacher was trying to parse the guide book, and we ended up off off off road going through roughly plowed fields. Then we saw a mother deer and her young one. We started running to try to see them again. We eventually got back on the path  The result of this misadventure is that my knee is trashed. When will I learn to put my well being first and stop when I'm doing stupid stuff like that?

So I limped the last seven or eight miles to Los Arcos. When I got checked in I asked the guy if he knew where I could buy ice for my knee. He said he had ice bags. It turns out he has several blue ice bags, so I am hooked up. I plan to ice every two hours and see how it feels in the morning. If it feels ok, I will walk five miles to the next alberque. If it doesn't feel ok I'll spend another night here in Los Arcos. They have a big church so I could spend the day in Prayer and meditation. lol I'm hoping this isn't the end of my Camino.  

Late this afternoon I had a lovely snack of bread, cheese, olives, and home made cookies. I was planning to go out later for the ten euro fixed Pilgrim's menu dinner, but my snack was so filling I wasn't hungry at dinner time. 

I tried to sleep in until six this morning, but it didn't work. Got up about five and went downstairs to ice my knee. It was feeling better so I thought I'd try the five miles to Torres del Rio. Well try is not exactly a precise description. Once you leave town there are no support vehicles to rescue you, you have to make it to the next town with an alberque. In fact when I was headed into Los Arcos yesterday and my knee hurt so bad, I knew I had to suck it up. My only other choice was to sit down in the middle of the road and wait for the critters to get me. There were moments when that sounded appealing. lol

While I was icing my knee, having some breakfast and drinking some coffee I got to chatting with a Brit named Rupert. He is in publishing. We chatted for about an hour or so until his Russian friends came down for breakfast and I went upstairs to get ready for my day's journey. He was really interesting. At this point the hospitalero, who had.been so gracious yesterday, was like a comindant herding everyone out at seven, even though leaving time is eight. Maybe this happens everywhere. I'm usually gone by six, so I have never been in an alberque at 7 am. 

I have been on the Camino one week and have walked 95 miles or one fifth. Please pray for my right knee.  

Saturday, July 28, 2012

Camino Day 6 July 28 Obanos to Villatuerta


Camino Day 6 July 28 Obanos to Villatuerta (Abergue La Casa Magica) 13.7 miles Total to date 78.2.

I had a donut peach and yogurt for breakfast. A doughnut peach is flatter than a regular peach and has a dip in the middle. If you are shown one, you know immediately why it is called a “doughnut” peach.  I left the alberque about 6:30 am for the hike to Villatuerta which is 12.7 miles. Again there were some mountains to go over. I went through Puente Reina about 8 am this morning and the streets were full of trash, broken beer bottles, and really drunken young people. Thursday, July 25th was the feast day of Santiago de Compestela, so last night Saturday July 27th the town had a celebration which included arunning of six bulls through the streets (which explains why all the drunken young men had on white shirts and pants and red bandanas tied around their necks) and a big fiesta, which must have included the drinking of copious amounts of alcohol by these young people.. They had all done their best to honor his memory. Ironic thing was that when I got somewhat disoriented about the direction of the Camino among this swarm of drunken youth,, not a one of them could tell me where the Camino was, even though, as it turns out, I was standing on it. I asked a couple of Policia who looked none to happy to be babysitting the drunken youth, for directions. Oh well any excuse for a party. 

I had lots of nice kudos from locals. One farmer talked to me about the weather as I went by and wished me a Buen Camino. Another man wished me a Buen Camino and patted my arm as I passed. An older lady wished me “buen suerte” (good luck). A man wished me a Buen Camino and gave me a cherry. And one of the drunken youths told me he liked my hair. 

The landscapes here are so massive and astounding, I don't think my iPhone camera can quite capture the granduer. Every two minutes there is another breathtaking view.  All day today it looked like it was going to rain, but it didn't. I'm prepared for rain but I would prefer not to walk in it. 

I am currently at La Casa Magica in Villatuerta lying in a hammack considering a siesta. I think I'll walk over to the bar and use the wifi to email this to myself so I can use the Internet to post it. La Casa Mágica and is in a medieval building with a peacful garden and four hammocks. The pilgrims dinner tonight is fresh green salad, a traditionally made vegetable paella, wine and water and dessert served family style. After dinner they are having a mass for us pilgrims at the church. After dinner a guitar “magically” appeared and there was music!


My knee and tendons are still problematic, but are bearable. My little toe on my left foot stopped screaming after about six hours today and I figured it had fallen off. But when I got here and took my shoe off it was still there. lol



Camino Day 5 July 27 Villava to Obanos



Camino Day 5 July 27 Villava to Obanos (Albergue Usda) 17.5 miles Total to date 64.5 miles

Good day on the road. There was a little up and a little down. I hiked 17.5 miles and seem to have made a friend. His name is Miquel and he is a yoga instructor in France, lives in an ashram and has been teaching yoga and meditation for years. We have ended up at the same alberques and crossed paths during the days. We seem to both like staying in the less busy places. He speaks English, so it is nice to have someone to talk to.

After I arrived here in Obanos, I showered and washed my clothes in the basin and hung them out to dry, and took a nap. When I got up It began to thunder and pour down rain. Then it began to hail!! It was big hail, the size of marbles. Good golly miss molly! Kevin said he saw news of fires in Spain and asked if I was in danger. The fires are on the border between France and Spain, north of Barcelona. That is quite a way from here, so I’m safe.

This morning I walked through Pamplona in the early morning. They have a lot of beautiful parks and interesting sights in Pamplona. As I got outside the city I was surrounded by acres and acres of sunflowers with all their little faces pointed toward the sun. This went on for miles. Then I walked up the Alto del Perdon, a big hill/mountain, where I saw the iconic metal sculptures of medieval pilgrims. These were seen in the movie, The Way starring Martin Sheen. Then it was down the other side over loose stones and through mountain scrubland to the rich farm land to miles and miles of vineyards and almaond trees.. I give huge kudos to the Spanish for farming this  dry rocky land, especially when they used to do it with animal draen plows or by hand. There are rocks on top of rocks on top of rocks. It makes walking very tricky. And makes farming very difficult. I’m sure if I were to research or was knowledgeable about farming I would learn that the rocky soil is conducive to hyyration or irrigation of the soil. However, today I remembered why I don't like hiking. When hiking you have to pay so much attention to where you place your feet that you don't get to gawk at the scenery or space out, unless you stop walking. 

I also discovered, or maybe realized is a better word choice, that I must have intimacy issues. I saw three different sets of people walking/hiking today holding hands. The first set I saw was two women and I was so shocked that some people were holding hands that I didn't gather any intel about their relationship. The next set was two women who appeared to be a mother and daughter. And the last was a man and a woman who looked to be a married couple of middle age. My reaction was that I wouldn't want to stroll around the block holding hands, never mind attempt mountain climbing hooked to another person. That's when it occurred to me that I might have intimacy issues. My poor dear sweet husband tries to slow dance with me every five years or so and I always mash the poor guy’s feet. 


During a break in the hail storm, Miquel and I went to a little market across the plaza from the alberque and got some olives, cheese , a wheat banquette, some packaged rice and vegi salad (sin preservativos.) We returned to the alberque and scrounged in our back packs for other edible treat and had a nice picnic style dinner. Now it's time to settle down for the night. I usually get up about 4:30 or 5 to get packed up and out the door by 6. 


Camino Day 4 July 26 Zubirir to Villava


Camino Day Four July 26 Zubiri to Villava (Trinidad de Arre) 12.4 miles Total to date 47 miles.

God was showing off this morning with little visual gifts, a waterfall, wildflowers, and an amazing sky. I took pictures which I will post next time I get phone reception  or wireless

I walked a about ten miles today in my sandals and now my tendons are sore, back to the boots tomorrow. Meanwhile, I'm on my way to the farmácia to see if I can get some Tiger Balm. 

I had brought a light that you wear on your head to see where you are going in the dark. I can't carry a flash light  because I need both hands for the poles  Last night some one stole it. Though annoying, it was almost nice to have something gone missing that I didn't lose for a change. 

So as a pay it forward karma exchange I picked up a pair of socks that someone had obviously dropped off their pack. They were damp and clipped with a clothes pin, so someone was trying to get them dry by pinning them to the outside of their pack. I carried them and kept asking people that I passed if they had dropped them. Several people said no, that they had seen them, but they were not theirs?! Anyway I stuffed them over my fanny belt strap and finally found their owner who was thrilled. She said they were her best ones and she had been very sad when she discovered they were gone. So hopefully I racked up a few karma points with St Anthony. 


I arrived at the alberque, Trinidad de Arre on the Rio Ulzama, in the afternoon. It is adjoined to a basilica church, Convento de la Trinidad and has 36 beds in two rooms. It was almost empty when I arrived. The location was very peaceful. after my shower and laundry, I walked into the small town and found an Eroski market and an internet cafe. 





Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Camino Day 3 July 25 Roncevalles to Zubiri


Camino Day 3 July 25 Roncevalles to Zubiri (Albergue Zaldiko) 13.6 miles Total Miles to date 30.6

The hostel I stayed at in Roncevalles was run by the local church. It's only two years old and very nice. The doors are locked from ten pm to six am. So I set my alarm for five to get up and get out by six. My guidebook says there are a couple of places to get breakfast in the first five miles, so I decide not to get a yogurt and coffee from the vending machine before heading out. Big mistake! The "breakfast places" weren't open, at least they weren’t open at to eat eight when I past the first one. My first cafe and bite (tortilla española) was at noon. Needless to say the afternoon part of the walk after fill up on carbs, caffeine and sugar was at a faster clip. What a great combo. 

It was still dark when I left the alberge, so I walked a narrow forest path with my head lamp. As it started to get light, just as the sun was starting to peek over the horizon, I came upon a field covered with low lying fog. As the sun rose the fog started to burn off and out of the mist cows began to take shape. It was better than a Spielberg special effect. 

I seem to have no interest in finding a walking partner or group. I'm really enjoying walking alone and going at my own pace. I'm enjoying meeting people and having conversations. I met a couple of kids from London when I stopped for coffee. And I've had conversations with a couple of my roomies in this alberque in Zubiri at the alberque Zaldiko. In this alberque there are three rooms with four bunk beds (8 beds) in each room. The  fellow on the bunk above me, Lee, is from Ireland and the gal on the bunk across from me is from Ecuador. She's getting a Master's in early childhood education and has studied in three different countries. Kim who is on the top bunk across from me is from Japan and the other four people in this room are Spanish, a couple and a father and his son. The son looks to be about thirteen. 

As I was typing this on my iphone I heard Clara's voice by the laundry sink. I met Clara in Orison and saw her last night in Roncevalles. She is originally from Canada, but has been living and teaching in Japan for twenty years. She is traveling with two Japanese men who are very nice. I cannot pronounce, let alone spell their names. 

After taking a shower and washing my clothes, I went out for a cafe con leche, then came back and took a nap. When I woke up Lee suggested we go find his friends who are staying at the municipal alberque and have dinner. About eight of us had pilgrim dinners that were yummy and filling. We shared stories of the road and our lives and lots of laughter.

Today there were more hills, up and down. My right knee was screaming on the downhills. I'll be glad, I think, to get out of the mountains for a while. I figured out that we climbed to four thousand seven hundred feet those first two days. I think the gain was over twelve miles. 


I walked through more forests and fields. Several times I thought I was on the set for Harry Potter or The Hunger Games. I miss all of you a lot and do look forward to your messages at the end of day.



Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Camino Day 2 July 24 Orisson to Roncevalled

Camino Day 2 July 24 Orisson to Roncevalles (Albergue Convento) 12.8 miles Total to date 19.9

No two ways about it, today was both a bitch and a magical journey. About ten minutes after I started this morning, on what proved to be a long brutal climb, with my muscles tired from yesterday, I thought, "I can't do this." But some how I kept climbing forward and my muscles quieted down. 

The scenery was gorgeous and there were hundreds of haltered horses, some pregnant and some with foals. I saw a soaring vulture and two hawks, thousands of sheep and herds of cattle. 

The first part of today's journey was on a small local road and toward the end of this segment I looked up and there was a guy with a van welcoming pilgrims and selling coffee, sandwich's, juice, hard boiled eggs, and other stuff at very cheap prices. The coffee  was welcome, but overall the French make very weak coffee, even when using an expresso machine. I don't get it. Give me Spanish coffee any day. 

Just around the hill from the coffee guy and right before the turn off to get off the main road and on the trail, there was another van with two guys. I stopped to chat with them. After a while one of the guys asks me if I'm going to Santiago de Compestela. I tell him I am and he asks me if I would like mission. Well, doesn't everyone? He explains tha they are with a religious order that helps people who are addicted to drugs and alcohol. Imagine that! I'm sensing God in here somewhere. 

So he has a bunch of little papers with the names of those who still suffer and he wants me to pick a paper, pray for that person, and take the paper to Santiago. So I agree and ask him to put the paper in the little pouch that Sandy gave me with the rocks from Australia. So now it has my rock and sea shell from El Moro, Sandy's rock from Australia, and Daniel. I will pray for Daniel as I walk the Camino and all of you can help pray for him too. The guy with the van also had blank papers for people like me to write to those that seek help. So I wrote that I hoped they would find what I found in recovery.

The walk on the trail was difficult at first. It was a very rough and rocky goat trail, but after we crossed the Spanish border it changed. I had to go through a group of horses and tried not to get to close to their behinds. I have never been kicked by a horse, but I know people who have and it doesn't sound like a pleasant experience. Once over the Spanish border it was beautiful, walking through forests on beds of leaves. Through the trees I watched sheep grazing. I was still climbing, but the environment was so enchanting, I didn't care. 

Then we we came to the highest point of the climb and I thought "oh goody, I get to go downhill. Wrong! Down hill was worse than uphill. It was a really steep descent on a goat trail. The last two miles I just wanted to cry.  It's funny the last two days when we were climbing I welcomed the few downhill segments because they allowed a little rest, but I cursed them simultaneously because I knew we hadn't reached our highest altitude, so anything we lost in going down would have to be climbed again. The same thing happened on the downhill. Every time we went uphill, I thought "oh no, that just adds more to the descent.” I just have to bitch! lol By this time my right knee was screaming and my legs felt like silly string. But I finally made it to Roncevalles.

I got checked into the alberque and got my bunk. There are 180 bunkbeds in this alberque, but they are in cubicles of four, which makes it seem more secluded. I took a shower, washed my clothes by hand in a sink and hung them on the line to dry. Tonight I will have a Pilgrim's dinner at La Posada with a bunch of other pilgrims (peregrinos.)

The Pilgrim's dinner was filling. They had pasta with marinara sauce, parmesan cheese, and a little bit of chorizo. I thought that was the main course so I ate 3 helpings while talking to my table mates. I was seated with a young couple from Yorkshire, England and an older couple (maybe as old as me lol) from Italy who are doing the Camino in a caravana ( motorhome or camping bus.) I don't know exactly how that works. The wife didn't know any English and the husband only knew a little, so I didn't want to try to ask how you do the Camino in a caravana for fear of offending them. They were delightful people. They had done the Camino in the regular way when they were younger.  The young couple, from England, were very nice, but much more ordinary. 


Anyway, I'm stuffing my face, and the waitress comes with what is actually the main course, trout and french fries. I'm thinking, "uh oh, I ate too much pasta. I'm already stuffed. But I found some room and learned how to eat trout when it is served with everything but it's head by watching the others. We had yogurt for desert. All that for nine euros. Oh yeah, and as much wine or water as you can drink. Oh yeah, and bread too. 

Camino Day 1 July 23 St Jean Pied de Port to Orisson (Orisson Albergue)

Camino  Day 1 July 23 St Jean Pied de Port to Orisson (Orisson albergue) 5 miles Total to date 5 miles

There is too much to take in. I got up this morning, had breakfast at the Hotel Itzepea, packed up, put my pack on my back and took the first step out the front door. I went to the store where I thought I'd left my guidebook. I was pretty distressed about the loss. I had spent the last few months pouring over the book, writing notes and planning my journey. However, I knew I would be ok with or without it.  With the help of the Google Translator app I had written a note in French to ask the shop keeper if anyone had found my guidebook. All the way to the shop I was praying to St Anthony, patron saint of lost things. I arrived at the store just as they were opening and handed my note to man who worked there. He made a signal to follow him and so I did. He took me to a counter on the other side of the store and pulled my guidebook from under the counter. I thanked him with bunches of merci. After finding my guidebook I stopped at an ATM and then began  the Camino. 

It was a strenuous climb to Orisson. At points I had to rest every hundred feet or so. Fortunately there were stunning views to look at while resting. For awhile I walked with Gerard who is from French Canada. We had a nice conversation, but after a while I had to tell him to go on because I couldn't keep the pace he was walking to enable him to go all the way to Roncevalles that first day. I was only going to Orisson. So I walked alone with my iPod. Well not exactly alone alone, there were many others on the route. 

The scenery is amazing, the weather is warm the skies are clear and the vistas are unending. Toward the end of today's walk I saw some huge hunting birds, I think hawks, they looked like small air planes  soaring through the air. Then suddenly, I was at  Orisson, at the auberge. First day done! It was a good decision to stop here for the night, five miles straight up, but my pack didn't bother me.

In the afternoon I was sitting on the terrace of the auberge, I heard a clanging noise.   I turned around and there were a bunch of cows wandering down the  road. Tonight we had a communal dinner with various languages flying around. Each of us were asked to introduce ourselves and say a little bit about ourselves. 




Sunday, July 22, 2012

Buen Camino

Well by the time you folks wake up and read this, I will be in St Jean Pied de Port or well on my way. My bus leaves here at 2 pm which is 5 am in California. I found out Pied de Port means at the foot of the gate through the Pyrenees. I will begin the Camino on a route Napolean liked to use to move his troops from France to Spain.

I realized I have begun living from my pack when I went to get scissors from my cosmetic bag and the thought flashed through my mind, I don´t have a cosmetic bag, I will need to use the scissors on my little pocket knife attached to my back pack.

This morning while reading my Daily Reflections, it dawned on me that, God willing, I will be starting the Camino on July 23, which is the day one of my writings in the Daily Reflections appears. It is about us not getting to choose when and if our defects are removed, that is Gods business. Our business is to become entirely ready. A lesson I am still learning. I must have written that when I was five years sober, given the printing date. I think I will reflect on how much, if anything, I have learned since then.

Today my prayer is that I remain open to the moment, to the experience and that God takes me where he would have me go.

Yesterday I got my first ¨Buen Camino¨ which is what people say to pilgrims on the Camino and what pilgrims say to each other in passing. So to all of you, my firends and fellow pilgrims on this journey, Buen Camino

Saturday, July 21, 2012

What A Difference Friends Make

July 21

It is so amazing how things work out. I believe the whole forgetting my fanny pack and having to leave Leea in a rush on the metro was God's plan to keep me from going all cry baby on her at the airport. But I got back to the hotel, found the fanny pack and made it to the train station.

When I got on the train I met a Spanish man who was also on his way to do the Camino. We are easy to spot with our back packs and walking sticks. When we got off the train in Pamplona we met three more Spanish guys going to St Jean for the Camino.

We all needed to get to the bus station to get to to tickets for St Jean Pied de Port where we will begin the Camino. I was planning to take a taxi, but they wanted to walk and spoke Spanish so when they asked, "¿dónde está la estación de autobuses? Thrun could understand The answer. So we walked and talked, them a lot and me a little. And, except for one, they were all older folks, like me!

We met another guy at the bus station who was having trouble buying tickets, so I was able to bridge the English/Spanish gap for him. We parted ways because they were all going to St Jean this evening and I am staying in Pamplona to get some sleep and going to St Jean tomorrow afternoon.

So I've already made some Camino friends. And here is a picture from my hotel room window.

Friday, July 20, 2012

Fear and Faith

A time of concern July 21

It is very early morning and I can't sleep. My world is about to change in some very fundamental ways and I'm freaking out on the inside. Leea is leaving for home this morning and I am sad to the point of tears. We have had a wonderful time and are like two old friends who know each other intimately. There is very little left of the mother daughter relationship. She is a person I truly enjoy. I don't know if we will ever have the opportunity, or will ever take the opportunity to spend this much time together. We could book a week in the desert at home, something much less expensive and exacting, but we both have lives and get busy and forget to make the time.

But what is going on this morning is not really about the sadness of Leea leaving, it is about the Camino and the little voice inside of me that is screaming, "What were you thinking!?!" "You are almost sixty six years old and have arthritis in almost every joint in your body. The pack is too heavy, you are not strong enough to carry it and you can't or won't think of anything you can leave behind." I think it is the bitches in the attic, but as I leave the hotel this morning I need to decide what goes in the pack and what goes in the suitcase to go home with Leea.

I am scared. To some extent I remember this feeling from the sixty mile breast cancer walks I've done, especially the first one and the one after my knee surgery. But the little voice keeps asking, "Why are you doing this? Why not just hop on the plane and go home with Leea? Summer is nice at home. I have a car there, I don't have to walk. I have friends there. I will be without English speaking meetings for more than a month. Yikes! What was I thinking?" I don't suppose I will know why I'm doing this until I do it, and maybe not even then. I feel I need to try. I need to get myself and my pack to St Jean in France and take the first step. I also need to keep in mind the difference between God's will and mine, the difference between perseverance and insane obsession, and between a pilgrimage and a death march. Hopefully I will remain open to the small still voice that helps me differentiate between these poles.

But I am scared. Maybe I scared of the physical hardships, or maybe I'm scared of the spiritual hardships, the lessons there are for me to learn. One lesson I am already learning is how selfish and self centered I still am. I'm feeling abandoned out here, like the world has moved on. Maybe I'm seeing what the world would look like if I died. I remove myself from California and the hole is filled and everyone moves on. Somehow I think they should all be missing me, writing me notes and sharing their lives. But they are just yakking about their daily stuff like I'm not even here, like I don't exist any more. I am shocked to discover I am not the center of the universe, the world doesn't revolve around me, and you don't exist only in relationship to me. Twenty eight years of sobriety and not much growth. Well, that is one spiritual truth I probably was fearful about seeing so clearly.

So, I suppose, I am back to "If it be Your will." My part is to not pack my fears, to put on my pack and my boots and take the first step, and each step that I can after that, the lessons, the joys, the hardships and the ability physically to take the next step is His business. Please God, be with me.

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Istanbul Turkish Delight


July 17, 2012

In between packing and unpacking on Monday we managed to take a Hop on Hop Off bus (Hoppy) which takes you on a tour around town and allows you to hop off at stops where there are things to see and get back on later. They have head phones and play information about all of the stuff as you go.

The first day we just decided to hop on and stay on so we could get a general idea of the lay of the land. We were both fairly ignorant about Istanbul. All that stuff about Ottomans and stuff just flew by me in history, but this city has been a major city since 660BC. It was known as Constantinople for sixteen centuries (at this point I pause to remind my self that our country has been around for a little over two centuries,) when it became Istanbul. The city sans two continents, Europe and Asia, and has been the melting pot for cultures, but religions. There is a lot of old shit here.

To some extent it appears that some of the old buildings are just allowed to decay and fall down. You will see occupied buildings, and right in between them is a building that is literally falling down. As with most old cities the streets are wide and narrow, straight and crooked, some with signs, most without. Compulsive signage and need for direction seems to be an American thing. There are no maps that serve any useful purpose. It has taken me two days and much wandering and questions to random strangers to find out where and which one of those amazing buildings are the major "must see" monuments like the Hagia Sofia, the Blue Mosque and the Basilica Cistern. We are admittedly at a little bit of a handicap because my phone won't get a signal so I have no data to do maps with while we are out and about.

There are few lights in Istanbul, but I don't think it matters much. Driving seems to be a matter of do whatever works. Cars go both ways on one way streets, if the traffic going one way is too heavy the motor scooters just go the wrong way on the sidewalk park with two wheels on the side walks on major roads, just tucked in so traffic can fly by. Marked lanes appear to be just suggestions. Pedestrians appear to be targets and crossing the street, any street is a life and death matter requiring your full attention. The cars do not stop.

The people, at least the men, appear to be friendly, but usually trying to sell you something. The women do not speak, to us, or engage in any way. Today I realized why this whole comedy of calling out to people to get their attention so you can sell them something is so irritating. In the states if some one calls to us either by name or otherwise it is rude not to answer, unless your obviously dealing with a crazy person, because people in the states do not call out to you unless they know you, want to ask for directions, want to tell you that you left something or dropped something, or some other reason having nothing to do worth trying to hustle you. So, we are conditioned to respond when someone class to us. It is a hard conditioning to break, and just ignoring someone seems rude and then brings up all kinds of cultural guilt. When this whole tragic comeday is played out every two minutes you are out of your hotel it is a little tiring.
I'm not saying I don't love Istanbul, I do. The food is to die for, everywhere you look there is another amazing building, or some spectacular old stuff. Monday night we took the night time Hoppy and we were taken to Asia, up a hill in a residential neighborhood (why is it the rich always seem to live on the hill?) to an outdoor restaurant to have Turkish coffee and some delicious rice pudding while watching God and man's collaboration of just the right amount of smog and a sunset.

The ride back down the hill was a visual treat also. There are two major bridges that span the two parts of Istanbul on either side of the waterway known as the Golden Horn, in addition to the bridge that takes you across the bay between Europe and Asia. At night these bridges as well as several other land marks are lit up in brilliant manner, creating an ocular treat.

This Long Days Journey Into Chaos

So I am paranoid about missing trains at this point and we need to catch a train to get to Madrid to catch our plane to Istanbul. So we discuss it the night before. Our train leaves at ten from Barcelona Sants which is about fifteen to twenty minutes by Metro. I think we should leave the hotel at half past eight and get breakfast at the train station. Lea wants one last breakfast at the Mercat. Ok we agree to get up at seven leave the hotel at eight and have café and tostada at the Mercat. I'm scurrying around worrying from seven to eight because I'm ready to go. The night before I got all the tickets and information together for the train, the plane and the hotel in Istanbul. I checked us in online and got our boarding passes on my iPhone with a scan tag. We start to leave the hotel and Leea suggests we should leave our luggage and get it after we eat. This mean retracing steps and I'm counting minutes like a miser counts pennies. But I agree. We eat, get the luggage, take the metro to the station and and we are there by quarter past nine. We got to the gate for our platform and sit down to read for a bit. The boarding people come and a line forms. We wait it out because we have assigned seats. About quarter to ten we go to board, I hand the lady my ticket, she scans it, she frowns, scans it again, looks at it and tells me the ticket is for September 14. I explain I just exchanged it on Tuesday and the clerk must have typed in the wrong date. She talks to her supervisor and then tells me I have to go back to the ticket count and exchange the tickets again. You remember the ticket counters with the long wait. So I go where she tells me. There are about twelve people ahead of me. That's not too bad. But now there are about twelve minutes left until the train leaves. I get to the window with about eight minutes left. I explain the problem and the guy tells me yes I can get tickets for that train, but I have to buy new ones and get a fifty percent refund on the bad ones. I tell him I have no choice I need to get to Madrid. He processes al the info and gives me the tickets with about five minutes left. I tear through the bus station suddenly rembering I have to go back though baggage check because of my purse. I cut in front of people who are dawdling, apologizing as I go. I thank my lucky stars this is one time I don't have trouble with security. And I get back to the gate with two minutes left and Leea and I tear down to the platform and jump on the first car we can just to get on the train. Then we travel inside the train to get to our actual car. We get to our car, catch our breath and realize our seats our not together. We find this curious because the train is only half full. So we find two empty seats together and sit in them. What we realize before long is that the train we are on makes about five stops with people getting off and on. We play musical seats for the whole trip and manage to sit together until the final leg. We arrive at Atocha train station in Madrid and decide to eat before we catch the Metro to the airport. We have a very nice waiter, he asks the usual questions about where we are from, and he tells us he wants to go to California to surf. After we eat we buy our Metro ticket and hop the next train. It's probably about a thirty minute ride to the airport with three changes of lines of the metro. We have already decided not to check our luggage after our last experience. So we head for security, scan our boarding passes from the phone (it's really slick and fast since they have a special line for doing this and hardly anyone does it yet. We get through security and take our tram down to the area where our gate will be. We get on the plane and have an uneventful flight except for the baby across the aisle from me who screamed most of the flight. It's become a joke with Leea and I that if there is a cranky or annoying child on any public conveyance they will be close to us. We wager now on whether they will be in front or behind us. We land in Istanbul about eleven pm. There is supposed to be a driver from the hotel to meet us. This was booked months ago and I sent an email telling. The fellow from the hotel that we were on the plane and looking forward to our transfer to the hotel. We land and getting the visa, money from the ATM and going through passport control went smoothly and quickly. We get out into the waiting area and there is no driver. We wait for a while and he doesn't show up. Worse yet my phone won't work in Istanbul for some reason I cannot fathom. It won't even get a signal. So I can't call the hotel. Finally we decide to get a cab and I show the driver the address of the hotel. He looks uncertain and asks a couple of his buddies. He takes us on a long wild ass ride and then suddenly pulls up to a place that has posts prohibiting cars, tells us he can go no further and waves vaguely up the street and tells us the hotel is "that way," there was no dealing with him and it was clear he had no friggin idea where the hotel is. Our favorite new expression comes in handy here, "he really was kind of a dick." There are hundreds of people out, so it was scary. Well to shorten this part of the story we dragged our suitcases around for about an hour getting directions from various people, including four cops. We finally find the hotel. The manager is there. He doesn't seem to want to talk about the lack of a driver at the airport. He is more interested in telling us our room is not available because there is no water, but we can have it in a day or two. Mind you I kind of splurged a little on this room. It is a deluxe double with an ocean view and from the reviews I had read was really sweet. But, he has arranged a room for us at another nice hotel and his bell boy will takes us there. At this point it is one am and we have been at it since seven am and I'm kinda shell shocked from the crooked cab driver, wrong date on the tickets, and I just nod my head and shuffle off to the other hotel. I am trying my hardest to remember my spiritual tool kit, but it is an uphill trudge. The whole lemons and lemonade thing just makes my mouth pucker sometimes. To be honest, we were given a serviceable room and one I would be happy with normally, but I had booked and was paying for something much better. I had trouble sleeping. Next day we are told we will be able to move onto our room, so we pack back up and they will transport our bags to the other hotel. We went on the hop on hop off bus sight seeing. Then I needed a nap. We go to our hotel only to be told, so sorry, it still isn't ready, so we traipse back to our alternate hotel. I unpack enough to take a shower and the water makes me think about the Camino and how many challenges I'm going to face. If I get this twisted over a little thing like hotel room, I will never make it on the Camino. I mean we have a room, it's not like we are on the street. Get a grip, Nancy. So apparently God thinks I've got the basics down on this lesson, because the phone in our room rings just as we are getting ready to go out to eat. The manager of this hotel asks if we can change rooms to a double room, because we are in a triple, which means there is a twin cot pushed in a corner against the double bed, and he needs the triple room. I agree, so we pack again and go out to eat leaving them to move the bags. We go to a restaurant with an amazing view and have a lovely supper, then hop on the hoppy bus and go to see an exquisite sunset from a hill overlooking Istanbul, while drinking Turkish coffee and eating this yummy rice pudding. We get back down the hill, everything is lit up, it's like Disneyland on steroids. As we get off the hoppy bus there are two guys throwing some stuff in and out of cartons and we decide to investigate. It turns out they are making a performance art piece out of selling ice cream cones. It was fun. There was music everywhere I the square and surrounding area. It was a pleasant walk back to our alternate hotel. We have no idea what tomorrow will bring, but right here, right now, everything is ok.

Sunday, July 15, 2012

Health Care: Gracias España

July 12, 2012

I seem to be always testing the Catalunya medical system. Last time I was in Barcelona I had to have emergency surgery for a bowel obstruction at what I consider the world famous Hospital del Mar. Leea doesn't think it qualifies as world famous just because it saved my life and I told all my friends about it, but I disagree. The emergency surgery involved an ambulance, emergency room, surgery and four days in the hospital. The care was fantastic, the cost was $13,000. Two days before I left on that trip I was at Mission Hospital for a bowel obstruction that cleared. That involved emergency room and one night in the hospital. No ambulance, only one night in the hospital, and no surgery. The care was good and the cost was $14,000. I believe from my experience the services rendered in Barcelona would have been well over $ 150,000 if that had occurred at home.

This trip I have had a nasty bout of diarrhea since before I left Morocco and imodium was not touching it. I felt like a sewage drain pipe, if you know what I mean. I probably just picked up some little bug my body is not used to dealing with. This happened to me in China too. It's not that the country is germy, they just have different parasites and germs or maybe we don't have enough with all our air, hand and surface sterilizer. It's a wonder we have any resistance at all. That shit makes me crazy, the hand sanitizer, not my current medical issue. But maybe my current medical condition is making me crazy too.

Anyway, this had been going on for four days and Wednesday morning I awoke with the chills, so I decided caution was the better course. I know the Spanish health care system is par excellence, and I don't know anything about the Turkish medical system. So I decide I should probably see a doctor here, before we leave for Istanbul. I go down to the front desk and tell them I need a doctor. They give me directions to the nearest medical clinic which is a five minute walk from the hotel. At this point, I want someone to bring the doctor to me, but that is not going to happen, so I walk over to the clinic and go to the front desk. There are two people in front of me so a wait a minute for my turn. I explain to the person that I need to see a doctor, and he directs me to a room where a nice young man asks me about my problems, ascertains I am not a resident of the EU and so don't qualify for free medical care, tells me it will be sixty euros to see a doctor and inquires if that is acceptable to me. He takes my money and information from my passport and sends me to the sixth floor.

It's 8:30 and the doctors don't begin work until 9. At ten until nine I'm called into the doctor's office, she asks me about my medical issue, asks pertinent questions to rule out more serious problems and sends me on my way with a prescription for antibiotics, a prescription for an anti diarrhea medicine, instructions to buy some Tylenol and a thermometer, and instructions to eat only white rice, bananas, and apples for a day or two. She tells me I should feel better in 24 to 48 hours. Oh and all of this was done in Spanish. She didn't speak English. I really am learning!

I leave the clinic and go to the Farmácia down the street from our hotel and purchase the thermometer, Tylenol (paracetamol in Spain), diarrhea medicine and the antibiotics. Total cost 16 € or about $20. Ok, that's my third experience with the public health system in Spain. It's efficient, effective and cheap. It would have been free, except maybe the thermometer, if I was a citizen. We are definitely doing something wrong.

I took the medicine and ate bananas and rice. The next day I suffered an extraordinarily nasty headache, like someone was driving stake through my head. Caffeine withdrawals. The second morning I hazarded a cup of café con leche and the headache disappeared. Today I had frozen yogurt for breakfast. It was very good, as good as the frozen Greek yogurt I got in Boulder a while ago. That was kind of iffy so I had a banana for lunch. But by dinner time I was feeling better so I had Paella Marinera on Las Ramblas. All is well. I am looking forward to Turkish food. The good news is, whatever weight I gained from all the good food in Morocco went out the drain pipe. hehehe

While we have been roaming about Barcelona, Leea and I have been looking for the world famous Hospital del Mar. It took us two days and a gps to find it. I have an excuse because I arrived in an ambulance and left in a taxi. Leea on the other hand came and went to this hospital several times while I was there. I was wondering why I was spending all this time and walking to find a hospital, even a world famous one. But we found it and after I took a couple of pictures, I turned around, and walked across the street to the beach. Oh did I mention I had an ocean view from the room? While I was looking at the ocean I thanked God, for the last three years, for the last twenty eight years for my life and my sobriety. Now I know why I needed to find the Hospital del Mar.

He Was Kind Of A Dick


July10, 2012


We got up for our first day in Barcelona. First order of business was breakfast so we walk down the Rambla to the Mercat to grab a bite to eat. It's somewhere between breakfast and lunch when we arrive. The Mercat is this huge open market that is like the biggest farmers market you've ever seen times ten on steroids. It's a crazy busy place and there are as many people there to take pictures and gawk as there are people to buy things all crowded into narrow aisles. It is organized bedlam. There are hundreds of stalls with fish, chicken, beef, fruits, vegetables, nuts, candy, cups of ujuice and anything else you can imagine.

There are also a few stands with stools where you can order and eat breakfast sitting down. One of these is El Quim which has been recommended by my fellow students from Salamanca. We find ourselves two stools and peruse the menu. We order, get our café con leche and wait for our food. This food stand is a bevy of activity. There are four men cooking, taking orders, serving people, and all the other things people do in a restaurant, all in a space that is about three feet square. It is a ballet of movement and purpose. The food as was yummy. I had a sausage and egg sandwich with bell peppers and Leea had an omelette sandwich. Amazing. We were ready to face the day.

After breakfast we take the metro to the Estacion Barcelona Sants to exchange our return tickets to Madrid because we realized our current tickets would be a really, really tight squeeze to make our flight to Istanbul. Missing a flight would be a little more problematic than the train we missed. There are about ten counters and you take a number and wait in chairs placed in front of the counters. When I get my number it is 685 and the board says they are currently assisting number 537. Yikes. I sit down to wait and Leea goes having have café con leche.

I wait for forty five minutes, get up to the counter and realize I have the wrong credit card (I need the one I used to buy the ticket) and I forgot my passport. So off we go making a decision to try this again tomorrow. We have laundry to do and a walking tour at half past four. Laundry is easy. I walk across the street give it and some euros to someone and come back at nine to pick it up.

I get back to the hotel to find out that Hicham's family has searched the house and my iPad is not there. This means it was stolen from my checked luggage on the flight out of Marrakech and the airline claims you are not supposed to carry expensive things I your luggage, so I'm probably out of luck, but I will file a claim anyway. There is a slight outside chance that they took it out when scanning the checked luggage and it is sitting in lost and found. It also means I need to rewrite the last four days. And, I'm not sure how much personal information they can get or use from that iPad. I hadn't been using it that much since it was handed down from John to Leea to me. Oh well, we didn't need to check our luggage, it was a last minute decision at my suggestion and it caused us to miss the train in Madrid and me to lose my iPad. I could kick myself, but then I would have a bruise.

We rest for a while and then go to meet our walking tour of the Gothic Quarter. We spend about three hours walking with the guide and eighteen other people. We see lots of things I've never seen before and learn a lot, maybe too much, about Barcelona's history. I knew I would not retain the Kings and Queens and dates for more than five minutes, but there was some context that was interesting.

After the tour we stop for some iced coffee's and then headed to the Mercat to get some snacks. Armed with snacks we went back to the hotel and settled in for a while. Later in the evening we wandered out to take a stroke down La Rambla. La Rambla is a long street that cuts between the Gothic quarter on one side and the Ravel Quarter on the other side. It runs from Catalunya Plaza down to the harbor an has narrow streets for traffic on either side of a large pedestrian walkway. The walkway is crowded with outdoor restaurants whose waiters dash back and forth through traffic to bring the food from the indoor restaurants on the sidewalk along the traffic lanes. The walkway also has vendors of souvenirs and all manner of street artists. My favorite street artists are the performance artist who don a costume or persona and stand or sit frozen like a statute. It's like a version of the Festival of the Arts only wildly uncontrolled.

After this we return to our hotel for a good night's sleep.






A Long Days Journey to Barcelona


July 9, 2012

We wake up a eight to begin packing for a two hour car ride to Marrakech a two hour plane ride to Madrid, a metro trip across Madrid from the airport to the train station to take a three hour train ride to Barcelona. Who planned this crazy trip anyway? hehehe shortly after we wake up Mama Aatif who presents us with gifts of two abayas or outside robes that you wear over your clothes. We are delighted and touched by her gesture. We don our abayas and go down for our final breakfast. It is traditional with the breads, muselix, honey, olive oil, cookies, café and mint tea. Today there is also fried eggs.

After breakfast we finish packing, load up Hasham's car and head out for the airport. It is a two hour drive. About five minutes into the drive I wonder if I have forgotten my iPhone so we pull over to the side of the road while I check my back pack. Along the road are check points with policemen. We get stopped at one because Leea does not have her seat belt fastened. It was a little disconcerting, but we got a warning and were on our way again. We got to the airport, Hasham bid us farewell and we went to check in. Suddenly Leea realizes she left he iPod in the car. She races back out but the car is gone. Leea is about to cry because that iPod was her camera and ability to communicate. We are looking for our check in desk, but it is not open yet when we see Hasam coming toward us and he has Leea's iPod. He somehow saw it in his back seat when he was driving, turned around, came back to the airport, parked his car and came to find us. We are both blown away.

After the excitement of the iPod we get a coffee and wait to check in. The window finally opens and I say, why don't we just check our carry on bags, we'll have to go through passport control so they will probably be on the carousel when we get done with the passport control. Worst decision of the trip. As my bag is going away I say, "oh I probably shouldn't have checked that with the iPad in it, it might get broken" but it was on the belt going away.

So we go through security and this time they hassle Leea. She was a lot grumpier when it was her getting hassled and they didn't even frisk her. Maybe that was why she was grumpy. lol They just made her take her, as they called it computers, in reality an iPad, out of her back pack and go back through the scanner. After this exciting episode we go to wait for the plane, go down to the Tarmac to load and sleep most of the way to Madrid. The plane was relatively on time and we were first in line for passport control. So we breeze through and rush to baggage to get our checked bags. Thirty minutes we wait and then run for the metro to try to get to the train station.

We arrive at the train station and run through the Metro station to the actual train station, search the boards on our way to see what train platform we need to get to, it is a maze. We missed the train by about five minutes. Dang! Well that's not exactly what I said. So we go to customer service and they say this can all be fixed and we can get the next train, but it will cost more. Oh well.

We finally get on the train, have sodas and a hot meal. It's rather nice if you like the back ground ambiance of a sick teething toddler. At some point I go to my suitcase to get my iPad to write some more on my blog, and, it is not there. Somewhere between Morocco and the train it has disappeared. There are only two possibilities that I can think of, one is that I left it in Morocco or it was stolen or lost by the baggage handlers.

When we get to Barcelona to our hotel Leea sends an email to Hasam and asks him to check with his family to see if I left it. I don't think I did because I remember packing it, but the mind can play tricks on me. But we are in Barcelona and have first world people problems. Tomorrow is another day.






Thursday, July 12, 2012

A Hike and a Celebration July 8, 2012



July 8, 2012

We notice that things are different this morning as soon as we come down for breakfast, none of the aunts or children are around. They are at Hasan's house preparing for the announcement party. Hicham's (sorry folks I've been misspelling his name as Hasam or Hasham) parents are coming to the house today also to attend the festivities and spend a few days in the country.

After we have some breakfast, Hicham asks us if we would like to go see his grandfather's house where he spent holidays as a boy. We say yes, of course. I'm a little surprised were going out when there is a party and the parents are arriving. So we get dressed. I wear my cheap $2.50 flops from Target because, after all, we're just going to look at a house. Hasan's son, Ishmael, comes along as our guide today because Hasan is busy with the marriage announcement stuff.

We drive a short way through the village which Hicham describes as looking like a set for an old American western. He's right. Anyway, he points to his grandfather's house , parks the car and we get out. I don't even take my bottle of water because I believe we are just going across the street. WRONG! Ishmael start up these steps which lead to the old mosque and an outside area set aside for something similar to a pot luck with a permanent seat for the head guy.

After this Ishmael takes off at a pretty good clip down this dirt trail and Hicham points out the community garden. Next thing I know we are going full barrel down what can only be described as a goat/donkey trail, because that's what it is for, and people too. It turns out to be about a six mile hike round trip according to Hicham's app on his phone to the "water source." Words are very descriptive in this part of the world, because that is what this is, a source of water which comes down off the mountain and through these two openings. You don't want to gather your water lower down because the water after the source is used for laundry, rinsing hands and face and a water hole to play in for the kids.

The people of this village actually hike up here with plastic bottles to fill with water and carry it back to their house. If they have a mule, they use the mule to carry the water and they can get more with each trip, but they still have to walk or ride the mule. Hicham noted that almost every house had a satellite dish and electricity to run it, but no water. It's a matter of priorities he thinks.

We enjoy the cool fresh water and then start back to the car and eventually back the the house. The parents have not arrived yet but we are served a lunch of roast chicken and french fries with a cold salad we've had several times. The salad is like Spanish gazpacho without the liquid. It's got tomatoes, bell peppers, onions and spices. So very good in the hot weather. Have I mentioned yet that every dish is presented as a work of art with decorative carved vegetables for decorations and vegetables draped in a pleasing manner, like in a very fancy restaurant. After lunch we take a siesta to get some energy for the party.
When we wake up we get ready to go to the party. We are told that Hicham's parents have arrived, but they dropped their bags and went to the party. Ismael is our escort to the party. Apparently we shouldn't walk by ourselves, so ok, but again he walks at a fast pace. We arrive at the party and step into the first room in Hasan's house which is all women and children. All the aunts and family members make a big fuss as thought they have been waiting for us to arrive. We are are introduced to Hicham's mother. She is sweet and we do the customary two cheek kiss. We sit down and try to be unobtrusive, a very funny joke. We stick out like a red spot on a white background.

The next thing I know the aunts and Asmara are pulling us into another room where music is playing and women are dancing. Other women are sitting around the wall drinking mint tea. We dance a bit, try to learn the moves and then elect the tea drinking activity. Everyone is staring and trying not to look like they are staring. We are rescued by the aunts again who motion to us to come back out into the other room and then lead us to seat next to the area where the bride and groom will be seated. We are like so uncomfortable, feeling like this is a place for family members to sit and we should be observing from the background. However, the mother of the bride told us to sit here and we don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. Asmara comes and sits with us and somehow that makes it better. We have a great time and were probably the most photographed people there other than the bride and groom. All the kids with cell phone cameras kept taking our picture. It was weird. We had a great time!

Later the one lesbian couple in attendance came up to talk to us. They spoke English and one of them was hitting on Leea. She tried to suss out Leea's preference by telling her she was beautiful and and should marry a nice Moroccan man we both thought this was a novel approach, but decided we should probably go back to the house before the girlfriend got upset. We didn't see Ishmael, so we started off by our selves, I mean seriously, it was about two blocks away. After we'd walked a little ways we heard someone behind us and there was Ishmael on his bike with some buddies looking at us and gesturing like, "What are you doing?" whoops, we're in trouble. So he escorted us the remainder of the way home. Hicham's mother came home shortly after that and we had yet another round of coffee, tea and food.

We sat around on the porch for a while and then it was dinner time! We had noodles and beef. It was very good. We had two salads, the tomato one and then another regular mixed salad with beets, corn, lettuce, etc. the beets were fresh, not canned or bottled. And then there was melon and fruit. Hicham's dad, Hicham, Leea and I ate in the sitting room. Hicham's mom and the aunts ate in the kitchen. I think they prefer it that way, there was way more laughter in the kitchen. Then with another full stomach, I went to bed.

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Into The Country

We get up at eight in the morning to eat breakfast and pack for our journey to the country. Leea works with a man named Younes who is from Morocco and he has arranged for us to go and spend four days with his family in the country. His brother Hasham will be picking us up and driving us two hours east of Marrakech to the family home. I am excited for this opportunity, but a little nervous because I have no idea what to expect.

Hasham arrives around ten in the morning and he is a nice young man, probably in his thirties. He speaks several languages including English. We chat a bit as he drives us to the country. We arrive two hours later after driving through a number of towns and villages some with bustling outdoor markets by the side of the road. Between the towns and villages we see people walking great distances to get to or from the village. Some people are riding donkeys carrying goods to or from the market.

The house by Moroccan standards is a castle. Even by South Orange County standards it is impressive. It sits up on a hill at the end of a long drive way with a hundred olive trees between the house and the road. Surrounding the house is a substantial yard with green grass. There are two watch dogs. The house itself is easy four times the size of our humble abode. We approach it by some grand stairs that lead to a front portico. As we enter the house we see two sitting rooms on either side with benches lining the walls. One the benches are patterned cushions and pillows making them very comfortable for sitting or sleeping. We move on and there is another sitting room on the right with a television set. I have hopes there is wifi, but no, we are off the grid. Across from this sitting room is the kitchen area, and out the back door is another patio area.

So, that is the first floor. We are told that the second floor is ours and we can use any of the rooms, which include two large bedrooms, another sitting room like the ones downstairs with a TV, and another sitting room with large leather chairs and a couch. It looks like the boys room. There is also a bathroom.

The third floor is a walled roof top with a clothes line and plenty of room to sleep in warm weather. I am stunned, and then I learn this is the summer home. It is in the Berber region where Hasham and Younes's mothers family are from. We meet a great number of this family and get to know two of their aunts and the husband of one of the aunts, Hasan, quite well. We also grow fond of several of the younger members of the family.

Well we set down our bags and within minutes we are told the food is ready. I'm surprised, but I'm thinking a light snack, maybe a little salad. We sit down at the table in the sitting room nearest the kitchen and several female members of the family begin bringing in trays of food. There are salads, bread, and a large platter of couscous covered in vegetables and I learn later covering a large piece of meat. Then after all of that there is melon for desert. I am stuff, but the food is so tasty. I think we forget what really fresh food tastes like. The vegetables used in cooking here were in the ground this morning.
I'm ready for a siesta, so we decide to rest for a while and then go on an "excursion." A few hours later after a short rest we are on our way to a waterfall in Ozoud. With Hasan as our guide. We drive quite a way and finally come to the spot where we are to climb down to the bottom of the waterfall, and need I mention climb back up. It is a long way down, easily a mile. The waterfall is huge and beautiful. There are little stalls selling refreshments and souvenirs on the way down. At the bottom are a bunch of kids playing in the water, climbing cliffs around the water fall and adults watching or taking rides on pontoon rafts covered with flowers and dining room type chairs. The rafts take people to the base of the falls.

Hasan thinks we should ride on one of the flowered rafts so we do. We go the the other side of the body do what and climb up a cliff by some playful monkeys to a patio under a grape arbor where we have some mint tea. It was lovely and relaxing. Then we started the trek back up which included two refreshment breaks, one for water and one for orange juice. We get back to the house and are asked if we would like some coffee and tea. We think this sounds good. We did not know that coffee and tea are never served alone. They come with fresh prepared bread things that are somewhat like pita bread, but warm, soft and freshly made. These are served with honey, a very thick rich honey, olive oil, used instead of butter and Nutella. Nutella?! Leea loves Nutella.

It's like seven in the evening at this time, so I'm thinking this is dinner. I am so wrong. We sit on the porch relaxing, enjoying the breeze, doing absolutely nothing, and staring off into the mountains. I'm contemplating whether I can do this for four days, I think I'm going through Internet withdrawal. Then I realize it is just preparation for the journey. My revelry is interrupted by a question, what was that? Am I ready for dinner? Oh my God! No, but yes, I guess. Again we go to the sitting room and great platter of food are brought out with a different kind of salad, rolls and a tajine filled with vegetables and roast. And this is followed with melons. There is easily enough food at each meal for ten people and there are only four of us eating Hasan, Hasham, Leea and I. The women who cook eat in the kitchen after bringing out the food and before clearing the table. We are not allowed to help.

At this point I have visions of me being rolled on the Camino. lol There is nothing left to do at this point, but go to bed.


A Long Time Without A Drink


July 4, 2012 Twenty Eight Years!

My birthday was not all fireworks and excitement. I was rather a calm quiet day, which was how I felt when I was reflecting over the past twenty eight years with Leea over dinner last night. I am comfortable in a way I never dreamed possible and it is a culmination of everything that has happened and everything I have learned over this journey. I am appreciating small kindnesses in a way I never did. I was busy wondering if I was going to get "my share" or if you got more or better. I was focused on what I expected, deserved, wanted, needed, etc. today I seem to be more open to seeing you and what you need or want and to appreciate the love and kindness you show me.

We awoke at four in the morning to get ready for our hot air balloon ride. The man who works at the road (hotel) had croissants, jam and butter, yogurt and coffee ready for us at half past four. Normally breakfast isn't set out until eight! We ate and went out to the end of the street to wait for our driver. The Medina is so confusing that apparently even the locals get lost. While waiting we hear the call to morning prayer from the mosque and some of the prayers from the people praying at home. It was soothing, a communication with a God of their understanding.

Our driver came and picked us up and we headed out of the Medina to Club Med to pick up two others going on the balloon. Yes, they have a Club Med in Marrakech. You would have to see Morocco to understand how weird this seemed to us. Morocco would be described by most as a third world country. Maybe that is where they build Club Meds so the folks feel safe behind the walls with a guard at the gate. The guard we saw didn't look like he could handle any serious trouble, but sometimes safety is just an impression or facade like a Hollywood movie set. Anyway, there are actually two of these in Marrakech, one in the Medina and one outside. We get to Club Med and pick up our travel companions, a British couple, he an investment banker and she something having to do with psychology.

After our stop we head out of The city and soon find ourselves on dirt roads going bumpety bump across the country side. These dirt roads soon turn into goat or donkey tracks and then just disappear all together, but our intrepid driver seems to know where he is going. It turns out this balloon ride is a family business and the family resides in several dwellings out in the middle of no where. There are several little conclaves like this about a mile or two distance from one another. The one we pull up to, which is the center of the balloon operation, has a traditional Berber tent where we are served rolls and coffee while the balloon is filled with enough hot air to lift it into the sky and tilt the basket upright.

I wanted to pee before the balloon ride so I was directed toward the building where the woman of the house handed me a small flash light and directed me to a room with a hole in the ground and a hose. Hmmmm. Well a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do. I'll leave the details to your imagination. I might add the dwelling had no electricity and most rooms lacked a ceiling. From what I saw later this was not atypical.

So when the balloon was ready the crew helped us put our feet in the holes on the side and climb over the side into the basket. The pilot had us practice hunkering down in the basket so we would know what to do in case of a crash and he made some other worst case scenario jokes just to entertain us. The sky was over cast so there was no blazing sunrise, just a soft and gentle lightening of the sky and a gentle breeze. It was really relaxing and calm. As we passed over other houses in the area we saw several people asleep on roof tops. This makes perfect sense if it is hot and you have no air conditioning. If we tried this we would all roll off, but the Moroccans have flat roofs with ledges. It is where they hang their clothes to dry and apparently where they sleep in hot weather.
After the ride we went back to the Berber tent for a traditional Moroccan breakfast cooked by the lady of the house while we were out sailing in the basket. There were pancake like things with jam, honey and olive oil, hard boiled eggs, melons and mint tea and coffee. This was like my third breakfast by this time. Also, there were flies on everything, which is not unusual here. In the markets the meats and other foods are hung on big hooks or cut into slabs and laid on the counters where flies spend the day. I suppose the yuck from the flies gets cooked off, but I'm still not ok with this.

After breakfast we hopped back in the all terrain vehicle and crossed the open plains. We went back to Marrakech for a short dromedary ride. It was just long enough to inform me that I would not want to use this means of transportation across any distance. A horse is much more comfortable. We both realized later this was not a great idea for people with back issues. We went back to our hotels for a rest, then did some more exploration of the souks. We decided to have dinner at the hotel that night and go to bed early. The dinner was once again delicious. I had a clear vegetable soup that was spicy and tasty and a chicken dish covered with vegetables. Very good.

Time Zones

July 3, 2012

It became evident that we weren't successful at the whole time thing when we were awoken by a knock on the door telling us our guide was waiting for us downstairs. Yikes! Mind you we are still sleep deprived, jet lagged sleepy heads. It is a miracle we did not injure ourselves trying to throw our clothes on in a rush. But we made it out the door with all the clothing right side out. It turns out Marrakech is an hour later than Madrid, ten hours later than California.

We did a four hour walking tour with just the guide, Leea and I. It was really nice because our guide was very informed about his country and it's history and we were able to ask questions and share with each other. We went to the Bahai Palace, the central mosque, the markets and even the area where the artisans make the goods. Seeing items like shoes and lamps being hand made was amazing. And talk about fresh organic vegetables! There were potatoes, onions, leeks, and all manner of fruits an vegetables for sale with the dirt still on them lying in piles on the pavement.

After our walking tour we wandered around trying to find the parking area where we were supposed to meet our driver for the hot air balloon ride the next morning. We were not successful. We had to call and tell him he would need to meet us at the door of our hotel because we were hopeless with directions. In our defense I should mention that there is no map of this area, that there are about a thousand little streets and passage ways, that there are no street signs even for the few streets that do have names, and that you are running a gauntlet of human and visual distractions every moment of your search. At one point in our search Leea ended up with a monkey on her head. The driver understood. Apparently we are not the only hopeless tourists. I have wandered around many cities in the world including those on mainland China, but Marrakech is truly daunting.

After this we needed a nap. We awoke in time for dinner. We decided to have an early dinner because we had to get up at 4 am for the hot air balloon ride. It was not to be, getting to bed early. We went right down the street to a restaurant that attracted Leea's attention earlier. The door was open and the guy standing outside welcomed us to enter. It was about 7:30, but they were not really open yet. They were setting the tables. They invited us to sit and said it would be ten minutes. Apparently ten minutes in Marrakech is equivalent to sixty minutes in our time. But we had a soda and talked, so it was actually relaxing. The was exquisite. It was set in an open air courtyard with gorgeous tile work and fountains, trees, plants, and lovely lighting. They had live music, rose petals on the table and the food was yummy scrumptious. We started with a section of about ten cold salads, a bean dish, lentil, cold cold tomato, eggplant, and on and on.

When I ate the lentil salad I bit down on something hard. It turned out to be a fair size chunk of glass. Leea wondered how that could happen. I suppose something glass broke in the kitchen and when glass breaks it flies about and maybe a piece flew into the lentils as they were cooking. Who knows? I wasn't too concerned. I was just hoping and hadn't actually swallowed another smaller piece, but if I had there wasn't much to be done about it, only time would tell. I thought about trying to tell our waiter about it so it wouldn't happen to someone else, but the waiter and I did not share a common language.

After the salads we had a pigeon pastry dish. Yes, it said pigeon on the menu. I don't know if pigeon means in Arabic what it means in English. I seem to remember in Spain last winter my mom in Salamanca used the word pigeon to refer to game hens. But whatever it was, it was delicious.

Dessert was sliced baby bananas, slivers of water melon with chocolate and strawberry ice cream drizzled with chocolate and mint tea. Sinfully good. Note to self: mint tea is deceptive. I didn't end up getting to sleep until about one in the morning.

When we were satiated and got the bill it turns out they couldn't process the credit card because the Internet reception was down and they couldn't communicate with the bank on the machine. Leea ran back to the room and got some cash and we were able to pay. I'm not at all sure how that would have worked out if we hadn't had sufficient cash on hand. Oh well Marrakech is a mysterious place which seems to work on some other systematic plane than we are used to in the US. Though this is a Muslim country the Tao works well here.